Dear Miss Manners: Is it inappropriate to ask those taking care of you — such as a dental hygienist, dentist or manicurist, e.g.
Dear Miss Manners: I am a first-time pregnant mom.
At the risk of seeming wholly unfair, Miss Manners suggests that you refrain from issuing your list altogether and instead send an announcement after the baby is born.
Dear Miss Manners: Is it appropriate for a family member to ask to be taken to the airport for a last-minute vacation at 3:30 a.m.
Miss Manners recommends that next time, you helpfully suggest a ride-share app — or another hapless relative — in your stead.
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